Where are my girls....????
There has not been much posting here lately... And I know that I am a hurge culprit of my accusations... BUT we need to get back to writing here!!!
Or we will lose all of our "loyal customers"!!!!
Don't make put out a stupid "If you had to..." or "Tell me about..." I seriously hate those "make you write moments"!!!
Ok... now that i ranted...
I am so awake, and so jealous of my single peeps. We (myself and the pot-stirrer) entertained Bumpa tonight with a couple of card games... Or rather Bumpa entertained me... Pretty sad, when you rely on your father to come over to entertain you. (no offense dad!)
And it's not that I don't want to something with or that I don't want to be entertained by my husband (the pot-stirrer).... He just seems to be content with being home and doing nothing. And when it's just the two of us, or us and the kids... He is sleeping by 10, probably more like 9 most nights...
I want to have FUN. preferably with my husband... But he sleeps so much lately that I am bored with him most evenings.... (ok, maybe not completely bored, Itchy does have football practice that I take him to and sit and watch). But I want to "adult fun" with my husband. I want to GET OUT OF THE HOUSE.
And the catch to it all is that if I'm texting my Girlz, he gets annoyed because I'm not spending "time with the family"... It's not like we even have these great conversations... It's quiet, small talk, or conversation/yelling at the kids.
When does the FUN in life come back? How do I get my husband to ant to spend with ME. I need attention too, damnitall!!!!
Hope you all are having fun!!!!!!!
Saturday, September 3, 2011
GIRLZ.... Where are you?
Posted by Bex at 9:46 PM
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Being in that rut is suffocating. I remember being there. Just know that we are always there for you, even if you just need to go grab a cup of coffee for a little bit. Yes I realize it's not the same as getting out with your husband but at least it is something. I wish I had some magical suggestion to fix it but since I dont I can only say...just don't wait until it is too late to finally try something to make a difference. By then there is too much resentment and anger.
Lulu
I was trying to come up with wisdom, too. But Lu said it all pretty good.
~Zaad
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